Nobody made you do it.

It’s always you that has control over your thoughts. Nobody can make you think something, they can influenced your decision, but they can never make you do something unless physically harmed. And when I say this, I say it because people often use the term “made me do it” in the wrong way, or “you don’t understand” in the wrong way. There’s always someone who understands it’s just whether or not you want to be placed in that position that you are in now and that you could be in later. Life gives us faults for reasons at the same time, it gives us lessons. It’s up to you to take heed.
You’re living your life for the safety/happiness of yourself at the end of the day our lessons get harder, but that’s what makes you stronger. Each day, I feel like I have to extend some courage and words of wisdom just because it’s something I finally have and am able to focus on for myself. I’d hate to see people throwing their life away because “Pain made me do it”, “love made me do it”, or “it was gonna happen anyway”. Stop thinking so negative, when you speak, God hears you. I’m telling you, it’s amazing. It’s nobody’s fault that you are in the position you are in but you, and it’s up to you to change it.