Don’t let them tell you who and how to love.

It’s a shame that in today’s world, people are often bashed and criticized because of their sexuality. There is no rule book to life explaining it’s how we should live, and who we must be, we are all just tryna live. You should be free to be whoever you want to be and love whomever you choose to love. I’ve had friends who were scared to admit who they were as a person because they were scared of being ridiculed, this world is very cruel. If they can’t accept you for who you are, you really don’t need them.

Ever notice how you’re more happy when you are YOURSELF. Sometimes parents play a major role in whether or not one wants to “come out”, or their sexuality in general. “Oh lemme not tell mom and dad I’m gay/bi-sexual because they might not agree with it.” So? You can’t help what you are attracted to. Who are you to pick and choose who and what someone engages in? In some cases similar to Jay-z’s mom who came out recently as gay/bi-sexual, some parents may not want to tell their children due to the effects it may cause on a child. At the end of the day, as long as you’re truly happy, that should be all that matters, although things are different under spotlight and fame. Look how long it took the world to leave Bruce Jenner alone. Traditionally we expect to see a man and woman in a relationship instead of man and man, or woman and woman, which do exist. Here are some of my FAVORITE forms of happiness through love, and just by being themselves. ( Written by Jessica Hunter )