Never loose focus on yourself.

Too often we loose sight of what’s important to us and what means the most due to inconsistency. Besides relationships, we tend to be inconsistent with ourselves. We all were meant to be SOMETHING, I don’t care what anybody says, god placed us on this Earth for a reason. Though I believe my gift is to simply help others through words, stories, poems, and advice, I believe that you can be what ever you want to be. In doing so, just because you have a good crowd at the moment, or a lot of people who know about you, you can’t stop there. “If you’re posting 2 poems a day, go harder, post 4,” said my boy Ant as words of encouragement. Can’t stop, won’t stop.

Also, never spend all of your life not forgiving or chasing your past. The thought came to mind of how people are disagreeing with family members and loved ones, ALL LOVE IS NOT MEANT TO BE! Some people you have to love from a distance. You can’t make somebody do anything they don’t want to do. If somebody want to walk out of your life, LET THEM GO *madea voice*. I know they say “Let it go, and if they come back, it’s meant to be.” Yes, if they come back on their own, not with you constantly stressing yourself out over the next person. That goes for any relationship, family, friend, or partner. Life is about what you can do for you and yours, or soon to be yours.

“People tend to use any hurt they see as an advantage over you, that’s why you never let nobody see you hurting,” said my boy Ant. When he said that, I felt it, because it’s true. Once somebody see you hurting, they tend to use that against you in every way they can, but see “With pain comes strength”, tatted on my arm. LEARN FROM IT.